[Your Comments]

Comments include both spoken and written remarks that, now and then, we receive on specific books, our body of work, or The Center. These remarks aren't really questions, but seem too kind, or droll, or encouraging or informative to toss away. Here's a sampling of what our mail bag holds (all remarks are paraphrased and anonymous, of course)...


Thank you for sharing and for helping me grow. You will never know just how much you have helped me in the past to the present. I am grateful. Shalom!


I doubt you know how much good you are doing. Bless you & all your Center people.


Before buying your Spiritual Intelligence, I turned to end notes to evaluate your ideology... couldn't believe anyone would dare integrate stories about Dorothy Day and Mick Jagger. Wow. Great synthesis.


Now I'm into Don't Call Me Old.... Again, very motivating to read ideas from Christian Scientists who, in your mind, sit quite comfortably near those of Catholic monks, Native American elders, Jane Goodall and your deep grasp of Scripture. You've let in a breath of fresh air to my stuffy world of ideological hair-splitters... I'd call you God's Reconciler.


I am a poor man, but rich in ideas and quite wealthy in friends. Being poor, I tend to dig in trash cans to find whatever one can...Tonight I found a puzzle map of the U.S.A, took it home and put it together only to notice Nebraska was missing. So I walked back up the street, dug through the garbage and lying under your book, I found Nebraska!

(Editor's note: this month, we share both old and somewhat newer comments.)


Your site's non-commercial tone surprised me, its offerings encourages. But, given your preference for contemplative life, you must be the most secret of our secret treasures!


All this talk of contemplative spirituality is so b o r i n g. Where are the bells and whistles and magic of mystical visions and prosperity?


There is an aloneness on this planet that is softened by your writing.


You seem a peacemaker, for this is truly a peacemaker's site.


Born and raised at the foot of the Hells Gate bridge in New York City, I have worked [all my life, while]... striving to live a more creative, contemplative life of [abundant] voluntary simplicity.

Following my prompting for stillness, I moved two years ago from my 'workmans cottage' in an historic downtown area of [a large, metropolitan city]. At present, I live in a quiet lake community [where I] have totally renovated the small cottage I live in, doing all the work myself.

I paint, I draw, I write editorials [for others].

All that being said... I am writing to thank you for Ordinary People as Monks and Mystics, and A Way Without Words. As I did early this morning, I very often pick them off the book shelf and turn to one of the many, many pages I have highlighted over the years. 'Tis like water to a parched plant!

I am grateful for your wisdom in listening to your own inner prompting's and to have written such inspiring and guidance.

My pleasure. That's why one writes. Thank you for your inspiring life, and anecdote. --M.S.


Many years ago I read your book, Ordinary People as Monks and Mystics because the title intrigued me. That book changed my life. It was astounding how I found myself on almost every single page, and for the first time I recognized that I not only did not have the words for what I had been feeling, but because I did not have the words I repressed a lot of those feelings and desires about how I wanted to live my life because somehow they [were] not "in tune" with the rest of society and therefore I always wondered if there was something wrong with me.

The book gave me the insight that I was on track, that there was nothing wrong with my view of living and seeking a deeper spirituality, and that I was willing to pay the price of neither family nor society nor even my religious clergy understanding my direction....

I made many changes, e.g., reduced my lifestyle to basic simplicity, cut my work to part-time, and began my artistic expression through painting. This was ten years ago. I have never regretted what I did, although I am still working through some confusion -- but am content with feeling lost sometimes -- and just trust. I've come to the conclusion that it's the journey that matters most and not the destination. Thank you for that book, thank you to all the people you interviewed and who so graciously shared their experiences, and thank you for putting something I have felt ever since childhood into a recognizable form for me.

M.S. notes: Thank you for taking the time to write this sort of feedback which encourages and speaks to a universal walk of faith. This reader's words reveal the pluck and faith necessary to embark on a sincere spiritual life ("walk the talk").

This must have been the sort of faith (trust) Merton meant in his short prayers (p. 39, Thoughts in Solitude): First, he says he does not see the road ahead of him (who does?!). Then, he says, nevertheless I trust God:

My hope is in what the eye has never seen.
Let my trust be in You, not in myself.


As a spiritual director, I appreciate the Scholar's Corner. Not only do I use it for my own studies, but your reviews of certain books are ideal for certain clients -- especially those who are smart enough to read and really think about the deep questions of their life. Thanks for the service.


We are a group of Asian students, studying theology. Our professor turned us on to your site when we began to read about contemplative issues. One of our group found the site while online, and we like it. May we please use your photos for the spirituality site we're creating?


You may be interested in reading Joel Goldsmith's The Contemplative Life, as he was a 20th Century mystic.


I love, love, love your books. My husband calls them obscure. Go figure.


Having just read Ordinary People as Monks & Mystics ....it came to me that... I have been writing just such a book in my own head for years, but did not have the self-esteem to believe that my [own] ideas were indicative of anything but selfishness, laziness, and so on... thank M.S. in the purest sense of gratitude. I was dying of thirst and she gave me to drink....


[Some truth in your books led me to enter a monastery, something I'd wanted to do most of my life. That was nearly a decade ago. Merry Christmas with thanks.]


[O.K. so I'm an ambitious, busy corporate bee, who'd never in a million years get involved with organized religion. Grudgingly, after reading Sometimes, Enough is Enough, I've begun reading scripture and am looking into various methods of contemplative prayer.]


[I no longer drive, so] when a niece took me to bookstore I FINALLY bought your new book ['Don't Call Me Old...], and it truly was/is like visiting with you, in person. While reading, I talked back to you, nodding my head, saying, "That's right!" and plan to bring it to the attention of our marketing people here since we are at the stage of a [big expansion.]

-- Retiree, resident of Life Care Center


A group of us in Alaska meet to discuss books. We took a poll on our favorite books, and your Elegant Choices, Healing Choices and Lin Yutang's The Importance of Living ranked as our all-time favorites. So our group would like to come to visit your Center, work with you over a weekend. When will something like that be ready? (note: see Members/News).


Given your type of life, I don't think you realize how much your books help more ordinary working people. What you write feels from the heart, gave me back to myself -- teaches me that I am "OK" just the way I am, warts and all. I write this in present tense, for although I've read almost all of your books, I return to them when things seem dark and am revived to simply accept myself "as is."


I loved Do What You Love..., but loathed Elegant Choices, Healing Choices, which seemed like a chick-read. Was it?


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